Month: September 2013
Meal Plan: Killer Cheesy Garlic Bread {Tasty Sides}
Vintage Blue Mason Beach Memory Jar
If you would like to start your own collection of blue Ball Mason jars, the company recently re-released a heritage collection. You can use the link below to get a set of 6 for around $2 a jar.The link is an affiliate link, which means you pay the same price but your purchase helps support our family. We appreciate it any time you use a sponsor or affiliate link. Thanks for reading!
I love linking my ideas at these blog parties. Click the links to check them out and find crafty inspiration. If you’ve never visited a blog party, you will be blown away by the creativity shared and imaginative ideas.
Monday: CraftOManiac, Mad in Crafts, Sew Chatty, Keeping It Simple, C.R.A.F.T., Boogie Board Cottage, and Sumo’s Sweet Stuff
Tuesday: Hope Studios, Today’s Creative Blog, Coastal Charm, and New Nostalgia
Wednesday: The Trendy Treehouse, Polka Dots on Parade, Lil Luna, and The Thrifty Home
Thursday: All Things with Purpose, Somewhat Simple, The Shabby Creek Cottage, The Girl Creative, and House of Hepworths
Friday: Sugar and Spice, Kojo Designs, Diana Rambles Pin Me Party, and The Shabby Nest
Weekends: Sweet Tea Social @ Texas Women Bloggers, Tatertots and Jello, Serenity Now, Buttercream Bakehouse, and Candace Creations
Meal Plan: Creamy Garden Veggie Spaghetti with Hillshire Farm Beef Smoked Sausage
Creamy Garden Veggie Spaghetti with Hillshire Farm Beef Smoked Sausage
The Ingredients:
1 tbsp olive oil
Vegetables: 1 zucchini, 1 summer squash, 2 roma tomatoes, 2 cups baby spinach, 1 onion, 1 bell pepper
Sauce: 2 cans Hunt’s Tomato Sauce (15 oz cans), 4 oz fat free cream cheese, 2 tbsp each dry basil and oregano (or fresh herbs if you have them), salt and pepper to taste, 2 tbsp minced garlic
Pasta – 1 pound Daily Chef Spaghetti noodles
Meat – 1/2 pound Hillshire Farm Beef Smoked Sausage
Serves 4-6
Did you know that smoked sausage is one of my favorite foods of all time? It’s true. I love those miniature smoked sausages with all my heart, but the larger version is more practical for use in a recipe. Garlic bread is another favorite food. I’ll share my killer cheesy garlic bread technique with y’all soon.
The Bear prefers for his food to be separated. We’ll call it deconstructed veggie spaghetti with a side of smoked sausage. Toddlers are tricky.
Mombo Comfort & Harmony Nursing Pillow Review
The pillow and cover are very well made, and the cover is super soft and easily comes off to wash. If you have a spit up queen like I do, easy washing is key. I love the gender neutral Mosaic Moonlight cover, but there are several cover options including gender specific ones to choose from.
Overall we really like our Mombo pillow. The only negative I could find would be the size might be an issue for plus size mamas. The angle of the pillow fits snuggle and comfortably for me and keeps my girl in place when she’s lounging, but might fit a plus size mama a bit too tight. I don’t know for sure, but it is something to keep in mind.
This review was made possible by Double Duty Divas and Kids II. I was provided the featured product free of charge to facilitate my review, but all opinions are 100% my own.
Prepping for Christmas with Disney Planes and Cars
As part of a sponsored opportunity with Collective Bias, I decided to get some early Christmas shopping done with Walmart’s selection of Disney Pixar Cars and Disney Planes.
Dusty, Bravo, and Skipper |
I needed stocking stuffers and thought the Disney Planes and Disney Pixar Cars toys would be perfect for my little man. The Bear loves to play with vehicles of all kinds, and fell in love with Cars the Movie during our beach trip this summer. We are taking him to see Planes the Movie for his first ever real movie in a theater. I wanted to get a few Disney Pixar Cars toys before they are gone, and knew the Disney Planes toys would be a huge hit in his stocking.
Pull and Fly Bravo |
You may think I’m totally crazy for Christmas shopping this early, but the truth is I’m actually finished shopping for our son. I still have to finish shopping for everyone else, but I love getting it done throughout the year, rather than waiting until the last minute. You can read more about my frugal Christmas tips here. Shopping early allows me to pick and choose my gifts carefully and stick to our budget. All of the Disney Pixar Cars toys are on clearance right now at Walmart, so I got some fabulous deals. You can see more of my shopping trip here on Google+.
Checking out Mater. |
The toys fit in perfectly with the Bear’s big gift, and will take up residence in his stocking on Christmas Eve. I’m so glad to have the stocking stuffers checked off the list, because they are always the last thing I find. I want to choose thoughtful gifts rather than whatever is available at the last minute. If you are a fan of the Disney Pixar Films, now is the time to snap up the World of Cars toys before they go away.
So in love. |
The worst part for me about shopping early is waiting to give the gifts. I couldn’t take it, so I gave the Bear his Mater truck as a reward for all of his work potty training these past few weeks. My reward for hard potty training work was two hours of laying out at a friend’s pool with my girlfriends and no kids. Everybody’s a winner at the Eby house. The Bear absolutely loves Mater and carried him around all day. He recognized him immediately and quickly introduced him to his other cars and trucks, saying “meet friends” over and over. So cute, my heart melted in a puddle. I can’t wait to see his little eyes light up when he recognizes his new planes on Christmas morning. His big gift will give him lots more space to drive his cars and fly his planes, but for now he is completely entertained with the road we made out of a cardboard box and duct tape. I love this kid.
Mater meets the duct tape road. |
Life to the Full: Depression Will Not Win {Five Ways I Am Fighting Back}
Writing this post has been difficult for me. In almost four years of blogging I’ve never talked about this part of my life, but for a while now I’ve known it was time. Writing this series about living Life to the Full has made me take a hard look at myself and the areas of my life that prevent me from living a full life. All of my life I’ve struggled with periodic depression, usually set off by a negative event. Childhood bullying, break ups, injuries, family losses and tragedies, any time something negative happens in my life I know I’m at risk for a bought with depression. The feelings are familiar and I now know how to recognize them as they creep in.
I’m sharing this now because I’ve been struggling recently and know that I’m not the only one. Recently we had an accident that could have been tragic and was completely my fault. Thankfully no one was hurt, but the mistake and the “what ifs” are haunting me and causing me to battle my old and familiar adversary, depression. My hope is that by airing what I’m going through possibly someone else will find light in the darkness. I believe that when we talk about our struggles out loud and bring them in to the light, their power over us diminishes. I’m hoping shedding light on this side of my life will bring light in to another’s. I believe much of this struggle is spiritual, as well as physical and chemical. I am a follower of Jesus, and my perspective here reflects that. If you are not, know that you will hear no judgement from me. I’ve tried to include helpful insights for those of all (or no) faith backgrounds to the extent that I can while remaining true to what I believe.
I’m not any type of expert on depression, just a fellow sufferer. I’ve been medicated on and off through the years, but never found healing through anti-depressants. I’ve gone to counseling on and off as well, and found much more healing there than through medication. I’m of the opinion that everyone can benefit from counseling. If you’ve never tried it, seek it out. Many churches offer it for free. I’ve never been suicidal, except for a few fleeting thoughts while on Zoloft, a prescription anti-depressant. I then read that suicidal thoughts are a side effect of Zoloft. What the?!?! It seems irresponsible to prescribe an anti-depressant with a side effect like that. When I felt those thoughts creep in I immediately reached out to my counselor and doctor, who had me stop taking the medication. If you EVER experience thoughts of ending your life, please seek help immediately. See the resources at the bottom of this post for more information.
In my own battle with depression, I’ve found five daily (some hourly) ways that I can choose to fight back. Again, I’m no expert. These choices are things that work for me and help me to get my head above water. To me, depression feels like I’m in deep water and can barely keep my face above the surface. It takes all the energy I have to keep from sinking. Sometimes it feels like it would be easier to let myself sink, but that is not the life God wants for me. John 10:10, the verse I keep going back to throughout this series, says that “The thief comes only to steal, kill, and destroy, but I have come that they might have life, and have it to the full.” Depression is such an example of how the enemy’s lies can destroy the life God wants for us to have. We can choose to listen to the lies telling us that God doesn’t love us, that we aren’t good enough, that who we are isn’t enough, and sink down into the dark. Or, we can choose to believe that God created us for life to the full and get up and live it.
1) Start the Day.
This one is practical, but also powerful. When I get up before my children, make my bed, get dressed, grab coffee, and spend quiet time with the Lord, my entire day changes. When I am struggling, my instinct is to stay in bed as long as possible, stay in my pajamas all day, avoid quiet time, not take care of myself, and wallow in negativity. Choosing to start my day has a huge impact on how I feel. If you have children, get up before them. If you don’t, set your alarm 15 minutes earlier than normal and take that extra time for yourself. If you are a follower of Jesus, spend 10 minutes in the Bible, with prayer and reflection each morning. If you are not a follower of Jesus, spend 10 minutes in quiet reflection. The soul needs that time, no matter what you believe.
2) Choose Gratitude.
Make a list of everything you have to be thankful. Whether you are thankful to Jesus, a higher power, or the universe, choosing gratitude can be a powerful tool to fight off the darkness. When you take the time to write down the big and the small, it changes your perspective in an incredible way. Reading Ann Voskamp’s One Thousand Gifts was a game changer for me. When I feel those “woe is me” feelings coming back, I look to my list and force myself to write more. Choosing gratitude in the midst of a personal storm in my life is the toughest, but makes riding out the storm much more bearable.
3) Choose Joy.
When the darkness closes in, part of fighting back is to look for joy and choose it. Joy is very different from happiness in that it can come in the midst of pain. Joy can be a reflection of the good in others, the smile of a child, the laugh of a friend, while happiness is more self focused. Choose to smile at other people and mean it. Choose to laugh and be around people who make you do so. Enjoy the people in your life. If you have kids, play with them. Celebrate all that is good in your life. Wallowing in discontent will cause me to sink lower and believe lies about myself that just aren’t true. If I daily (and hourly) seek out joy, my entire perspective shifts.
4) Run Away from Darkness, Towards the Light.
For me, this means running away from the things that bring me down and towards God. Are there negative influences you keep running toward? They may be a person, a website, an activity, a substance. While you can find incredible encouragement and positivity online, you can also find hatefullness and evil running rampant. I have to limit my exposure to Facebook because all of the hateful political posts and fear mongering shares really cause me to sink. A friend stopped using Instagram because it caused envy and discontent to creep in to her heart. For a while I visited a forum that was drowning in darkness and negativity. In the midst of a dark time I wanted more of it, wanted to feel bad. I had to stop going all together because of the way it cause me to sink deeper. When I run towards God, I choose time with Him first. Before I check my email, before I do anything, time with Him wins. Running towards the light may mean banning negativity from your life from tv, music, movies, social media, and even some friends. Choose uplifting things. If they bring you down, run.
5) Run to Community, Away from the Shadows.
Negativity thrives in the dark, in the hidden. When I find myself avoiding friends, running towards lonliness, refusing company, I know I’m in the midst of a depression battle. My instinct is to run to my bed and wallow in the bad feelings. To fight it I must force myself to reach out and grab community. Say yes when someone invites me out. Answer the phone. Have real conversations. Let people in. God can use people powerfully in my life if I let them in.
In Genesis 16:13, Hagar gives God one of my favorite of His names. She says, “You are the God that sees me.” She is in a dark place, has been mistreated and suffered, but in the midst of it God comforts her. God sees us. He is the God who sees me. I’m choosing to believe that. I believe and know that He loves me. He wants real life for me. He sees me. He sees you. He knows you and loves you. His heart hurts when yours does and breaks for you in your suffering. He is the God who sees you.
For Help:
To Write Love on Her Arms
National Suicide Prevention Hotline
For Starting the Day, Running Toward the Light, and Devotionals:
Jesus Calling
Hello Mornings
She Reads Truth
Ann Voskamp
Flourish
Eleanor Pearl at Four Months
Our little Pearl girl is pure joy and sweetness. Her hair is still an lovely auburn and her eyes are the clearest blue. She is such a snuggler and loves to rock and listen to mama’s singing.
Ellie is in the 75th percentile for weight and height at 14 pounds 15 ounces and 25 inches long. Her head is still nice and normal at 16 1/4 inches and the 50th percentile. Bless her. The rest of us all have giant noggins.
She is still wearing 3-6 month clothes and the occasional 6 month outfit. She wears cloth diapers most of the time and looks so cute with a fluffy booty. She surprised us once again by rolling over from back to front. Now that she can roll both ways she figured out that she can get where she wants to by rolling over and over. She is sitting up in her bumbo chair and wants to sit up straight in the stroller and in our laps.
Ellie sleeps like a champ with only occasional wake ups at night. I feed her around 7 and then wake her up again around 10 pm to eat. After that she sleeps until around 7 am. She is becoming a more efficient nurser and loves to look around while nursing. She has never taken a bottle though we have tried a few times. I love nursing her, but definitely wish she would take a bottle so that I could be away from her for more than a few hours if necessary. The Bear never took one either, so I’m used to it.
Family Travel: Our Family Beach Trip
We attempted to get a photo of all five grandbabies, but it proved above our pay grade. Luke was NOT having it. At all. Note to self: next time have the baby entertainers stand directly behind me so the kids are not looking to the side.
Then it was time for everybody’s {least} favorite part of the whole week, the group photo. I always end up organizing it because I’m the oldest child and it’s just what I do. My mom bought matching outfits for the kids and the rest of us wore any shade of blue, brown, or white.
We traded photo shoots with our neighbors because I forgot my tripod. This was WAY easier than running back and forth after setting the timer. I need a remote.
We all survived and had a blast. We are pretty low key when we go to the beach, and spend most of our time just enjoying the sand and water rather than tourist activities. We eat fresh seafood we cook ourselves every night and do a lot of laughing and playing. Best week ever.
This one is my favorite because we are all laughing. Caroline’s face (in the middle) is the best.
Play Time Guest Post: Eight Fun and Frugal Ways to Bring Music Home
The benefits of early music education have long been touted, but signing up for mommy and me music appreciation groups or finding instructors to teach private lessons can cost a lot. Fortunately, there are multiple ways to provide your kids with exposure to music at home and on a budget, from crafting your own instruments to taking online music classes. Here are some easy but effective ways to give your children experience with music which can positively aid their growth and development.