Category: shopping

Frugal Friday – Buying a Used Car with CASH

Meet Betty, our new-to-us ride.  
Isn’t she lovely?
Here is her story.
After much discussion, Jed and I decided it was time to purchase a car.  We already have 2 cars, both completely free to us thanks to the generosity of Jesus/Young Life donors/family.  Those cars are 10 and 20 years old respectively.  We love them in their old age, and are so thankful for their faithful service. Big Red, Jed’s 20 year old GMC pick up has developed some issues that are pretty serious, so we know her days of dependability are numbered.  We thought about waiting until she died a natural death, but decided the wiser thing to do would be to start the search for our next car while we still had the flexibility of two working cars.  
My 10 yr old XTerra has almost 150,000 miles on her, so we thought it would be good to make her our secondary car before the miles get too high.  We also discussed going to one car, but our current living/working situations don’t allow for that.    
We set a budget of $10-12,000, knowing we could pay cash for that.  We are FAR from wealthy by American standards, but we have worked hard to save most of my paycheck each month for over a year.  We also have a 6 month emergency fund built up that we didn’t touch for this purchase.  
We started looking on Craigslist for lots of different models.  We both like Tahoes, Outbacks, and other small SUVs and station wagons.  We looked at mini vans, but just couldn’t do it.  Not that there is anything wrong with mini vans.  They are great, I’m sure, just not for us right now.  We test drove cars from dealers and individuals, including 2 Tahoes that I’m pretty sure were stolen or from police auctions.  SOOO SKETCHY.  
We looked at used car dealers in our area that were part of bigger dealerships with good reputations.  At one dealer we found a 2005 Honda Pilot listed at $16,915.  She was beautiful, but way out of our price range.  We wanted around 80,000 miles or less, she had 81,000.  She also came fully loaded with leather, a sunroof, DVD, 3rd row, rear air, and more cup holders than you could ever want or use.  Right off the bat the salesman told us he could mark her down to $13,900, because she was a Honda on a Chevy lot.  Still way out of our range.  We drove her, and she was such a smooth ride.  We went home, ate lunch and let Fisher take a nap.  We checked the Kelly Blue Book and her Carfax.  The Carfax came back saying that she was worth $330 more than the KBB value, which was $18,600.  Whoa.  So, she was offered to us at $5000 less than the KBB value.  She was still over our budget by almost $2000.  Not ok.  Then we pulled up the dealer website to look over the details again, and noticed that the rock bottom internet only price they had listed was $12,500.  Hmmm.  That might be doable for a car that is far beyond anything we had hoped to find.  
We went back to the dealer that afternoon and told our salesman about the internet price.  He said he would have to honor it.  We went for it, on the contingency that our trusted mechanic could take a look at it first.  He asked us about financing, and we told him we were paying cash.  That threw him off completely.  He didn’t really know what to do, and said no one had done that since he had been there.  
They wouldn’t let us use our debit card or write a check, so we had to wait until Monday morning when I could go to the bank and get a cashier’s check.  I handed the check to the dealer, they gave me the keys, and we were done.  No car payments for us!  We love our new ride and are so thankful to not have a big car payment every month. 
Why pay cash?  Interest my friends, interest.  Let’s do a little math.  If we put down $1000 and financed $11,500, we would actually end up paying over $1000 extra for our car.  Yikes.  That’s a lot of money.   
Have you ever paid cash for a big purchase? How did you make it happen?  Would you do it again?

My Postpartum Fashion Crisis

I am in the midst of a postpartum fashion crisis.  I’ve lost 2/3 of the baby weight, but as I was 20 lbs overweight when I got pregnant I still have a long way to go.  In the mean time I need some clothes that actually fit.  Maternity clothes hang off me like a tent, but pre-baby clothes are tight and ill-fitting.  I’m living in wardrobe limbo.  My body has changed a lot because of the pregnancy, c-section, and breastfeeding.  Holler if ya hear me, mamas.

I was watching Stacy and Clinton regulate on “What Not to Wear” and came to the realization that they would be horrified by my current wardrobe.  I am shocked at how quickly I fallen into bad mom clothes.  To add insult to injury, I haven’t had a hair cut in over a year.  Yikes.  Please send help.  I’m trying to see this as an opportunity to start over and buy classic pieces that will last.  Stacy and Clinton gave their pupil a list of basics, so I went to the TLC site to check it out.

The “What Not to Wear” Basics List

  • 1 cocktail dress
  • 4 day dresses – I have 3 summery ones, but nothing for fall.  
  • 1 walking short    I don’t wear shorts.  Yuck.
  • 6 blouses – bought a few cute nursing tops from Gap
  • 2 cardigans – just bought one, a lovely dark teal for fall
  • 1 denim jacket
  • 4-5 assorted camisoles
  • 1 trench coat
  • 2 blazers
  • 1 black peep toe heel
  • 1 red heel
  • 1 ballet flat – got it
  • 1 wedge – I had some rockin’ Toms wedges, but my feet seem to have grown during pregnancy.  Will the injustice never end?
  • 1 sandal – got it 
  • 5 bangles 
  • 5 earrings – got em
  • 5 necklaces – got em, but could use a few new ones
  • 1 clutch – got it
  • 1 everyday bag – got it

I would add a pair of dark, stretchy jeans, a pair of black pants, and a few a line skirts.  What are your fashion basics?  How did you deal with the postpartum body change?  How did you lose the baby weight?

Anthro Inspired Vintage Necklace Remake

I love all of the gorgeous statement necklaces that Anthropologie and a lot of other stores have been featuring lately. The ones at Anthro are priced from $42-$198, which is way out of my price range, as usual. I found this lovely faux pearl bib choker at an estate sale for $2. Vintage costume jewelry is my favorite kind of estate sale find. It needed a little help, so I removed the broken clasps and attached ivory grosgrain ribbon so that I could adjust the length.

The ribbon ties in a bow and falls down my back. I love it!

Here are the different length possibilities:


Short

Medium


Long


Extra Long


Even longer


The necklace is backed with lovely ivory satin. It is a little stained and worn, but I like to call that vintage character.


One clasp wouldn’t come out, but it doesn’t show when I wear the necklace. I simply glued the ribbon on with craft glue. It would probably look neater if I sewed it on, but I don’t know how to sew. Oh well, it works.

frugal friday – confessions of a shopaholic

hi, my name is becca, and i’m a shopaholic. seriously, i have a problem. i love to partake in a little retail therapy when i’ve had a bad day, or really any day. we’ve been credit card free for a long time now, so that limits my spending. because of the strict budgeting, my new favorite places to shop are marshall’s, ross, and tj maxx. i have to tell you that i found the cutest mexican style dress at marshall’s for only $15.99! it has pockets and is perfection. i haven’t taken a picture yet, but i’m sure i will soon. the only difficulty i have at those stores is the search. i think you have to go in with a few items in mind, otherwise the madness and disorganization will drive you up the wall.

the dress is great, but my favorite thing to search for at those stores is… bras! i fell in love with calvin klein perfect fit bras several years ago, but they are pricy. they run $38-45 retail, and that is just too much. i have found many at marshall’s in the $6.99-$12.99 range. holy monkeys, that is a big discount!

my next mission is to find a new pair of jeans… i’ll let you know how it goes.
what is your favorite search item at discount stores?